I'm always on the lookout for cute, comfortable clothes to wear when I'm out and about with the babies. Nobody wants to look frumpy or like a worn-out mom, right? Practicality aside, I'm no fashionista, but I like to look in the mirror and like what I am wearing, ya know?
I don't know exactly what my "style" is, if I even have one? I like stripes. Too much. I like polka dots. I like solids. I like it all!
I approach my shopping much differently now that I'm a Mama:
First: It can't be too expensive. It WILL get baby drool or toddler mysterygoo on it.
Second: It HAS to be comfortable - not just tolerable.
Third: I have to be able to access "the girls" if needed for breastfeeding ease. (Yes, I've been TOPLESS in a CHURCH because I didn't take into account my dress wasn't breastfeeding-appropriate.)
Fourth: It must fit. I used to be notorious for buying something that was "SO CUTE, if only it were a little longer/shorter/looser/tighter/whatever". The likelihood of me going to get something tailored these days is pretty slim.
That's why I love reading other Mommy blogs - I get great ideas and heads-up for sales ; ) There's always Pinterest too for inspiration, although, even with photographic instruction, I still struggle with putting outfits together.
I mentioned in a previous post that I recently joined StitchFix. If you're not familiar, it's an online styling service that you pay $20 for. You fill out an online profile. Once they can take you on, someone hand picks 5 items for you, in the price range you specify, and sends them to you. Since I canceled my Birchbox subscription, it's really only costing me (another) $10 a month. That's how my rationalization works here in Tammyfantasyland, haha!
You get the package in the mail (it's like Christmas!). You try it all on -- have a little fashion show with your Toddler -- keep what you love -- and send back what you don't. You only pay for what you decide to keep and that $20 fee you paid upfront goes toward any purchases. They make it super convenient to return the items in a postage-paid mailer bag too. Meaning, I don't have to schlep it to the post-office with my sumoweight baby in tow. Easy = Happy Mama.
For my first "Fix", I kept one out of the 5 items they sent me. I was torn on whether or not to keep THREE others, but ultimately decided to return them because of fit. If it didn't fit perfectly, I wouldn't wear it and it would be a big waste.
| This cardigan is the item I kept. Disregard the fact that I am in an Old Navy changing room , lol! |
I loved the items they chose because they were things I probably wouldn't have picked out in a store - or even tried on for that matter. That's what makes it fun. It's like having a friend shop with you and say "Hey, I think you'd look good in this. Why don't you give it a try?" Since I can no longer get out shopping with girlfriends like the good ol' days, this is the next best thing ; )
You can get your Fix as often as you want. You tell them when to send your next fix OR you can have it sent automatically every month. I really like that they don't force you to subscribe to a frequency.
*I am not receiving any compensation for my opinion on StitchFix, just wanted to share my experience* (If you do, however, want to sign up, if you mention my name or use this link, I will get a $25 referral credit. http://stitchfix.com/users/signup/?referrer_id=3026613)
For everyday outings (Target & grocery store runs, school drop-offs, miscellaneous errands) I always turn to neutral colored basics that are comfortable and mixable. Now that it's fall, I usually throw on some boots and maybe a scarf.
| This plaid shirt was WAY outside my comfort zone. But kinda cute? Something about it attracted me. But I didn't buy it. |
I recently remembered I had a credit to use at Kiki La'Rue from this summer. They are always changing their inventory so I was super excited to find this dress & sweater:
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| I thought I might wear this for Thanksgiving paired with some tights and boots? |
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| This would be cute with a black tank/black leggings and maybe a brown belt & brown boots? |
Have you found anything you are loving to wear lately?? DO SHARE!!





I've never heard of this. Sounds very interesting! I love wearing leggings and long sweaters/sweatshirts, but I can't find any comfy every day ones. I don't want dressy stuff, I just want long shirts to cover my big butt in the leggings, haha. Otherwise it's yoga pants and a tshirt for this mama! I'm still struggling to fit into my cute jeans :(
ReplyDeleteI stumbled on your blog tonight from My Life as Mama's blog.. and you've instantly made me a new follower. This idea is fantastic! I plan to check it out and if I sign up, I'll definitely make it known you sent me. :) your kids are adorable, by the way!
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